Difference between revisions of "Buddhist view of marriage"
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While [[Buddhism]] neither encourages nor discourages [[marriage]], it does offer some guidelines for it. While [[Buddhist practice]] varies considerably among its various schools, [[marriage]] is one of the few [[Wikipedia:concept|concepts]] specifically mentioned in the context of [[Śīla]] ([[Buddhist]] {{Wiki|behavior}} [[discipline]]). | While [[Buddhism]] neither encourages nor discourages [[marriage]], it does offer some guidelines for it. While [[Buddhist practice]] varies considerably among its various schools, [[marriage]] is one of the few [[Wikipedia:concept|concepts]] specifically mentioned in the context of [[Śīla]] ([[Buddhist]] {{Wiki|behavior}} [[discipline]]). | ||
| − | [[Gautama Buddha]] never spoke against [[marriage]] but instead pointed out some of the difficulties of [[marriage]]. He is quoted in the | + | [[Gautama Buddha]] never spoke against [[marriage]] but instead pointed out some of the difficulties of [[marriage]]. He is quoted in the [[Parabhava Sutta]] as saying |
Not to be contented with one's own wife, and to be seen with harlots and the wives of others -- this is a [[cause]] of one's downfall. {{Wiki|Being}} past one's youth, to take a young wife and to be unable to [[sleep]] for [[jealousy]] of her -- this is a [[cause]] of one's downfall. | Not to be contented with one's own wife, and to be seen with harlots and the wives of others -- this is a [[cause]] of one's downfall. {{Wiki|Being}} past one's youth, to take a young wife and to be unable to [[sleep]] for [[jealousy]] of her -- this is a [[cause]] of one's downfall. | ||
| − | The fundamental code of [[Buddhist]] [[ethics]], the Pancasila (or [[five precepts]]), contains an admonishment of {{Wiki|sexual}} misconduct, though what constitutes such misconduct from a [[Buddhist]] {{Wiki|perspective}} varies widely depending on the local {{Wiki|culture}}. | + | The fundamental code of [[Buddhist]] [[ethics]], the [[Pancasila]] (or [[five precepts]]), contains an admonishment of {{Wiki|sexual}} misconduct, though what constitutes such misconduct from a [[Buddhist]] {{Wiki|perspective}} varies widely depending on the local {{Wiki|culture}}. |
| − | The [[Digha Nikaya]] 31 ( | + | The [[Digha Nikaya]] 31 ([[Sigalovada Sutta]]) describes the [[respect]] that one is expected to give to one's spouse. |
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Revision as of 03:01, 25 September 2013
The Buddhist view of marriage considers marriage a secular affair and as such, it is not considered a sacrament. Buddhists are expected to follow the civil laws regarding marriage laid out by their respective governments.
While the ceremony itself is civil, many Buddhists obtain the blessing from monks at the local temple after the marriage is completed.
The Dalai Lama has spoken of the merits of marriage.
Too many people in the West have given up on marriage. They don't understand that it is about developing a mutual admiration of someone, a deep respect and trust and awareness of another human's needs...The new easy-come, easy-go relationships give us more freedom -- but less contentment.
While Buddhism neither encourages nor discourages marriage, it does offer some guidelines for it. While Buddhist practice varies considerably among its various schools, marriage is one of the few concepts specifically mentioned in the context of Śīla (Buddhist behavior discipline).
Gautama Buddha never spoke against marriage but instead pointed out some of the difficulties of marriage. He is quoted in the Parabhava Sutta as saying
Not to be contented with one's own wife, and to be seen with harlots and the wives of others -- this is a cause of one's downfall. Being past one's youth, to take a young wife and to be unable to sleep for jealousy of her -- this is a cause of one's downfall.
The fundamental code of Buddhist ethics, the Pancasila (or five precepts), contains an admonishment of sexual misconduct, though what constitutes such misconduct from a Buddhist perspective varies widely depending on the local culture.
The Digha Nikaya 31 (Sigalovada Sutta) describes the respect that one is expected to give to one's spouse.
